Conflict is part of all relationships…
we’re just not equipped to deal with it.

When we know how to respond, conflict becomes an opportunity for greater connection and intimacy!

Hi, I’m Tanishka.

After 23 years assisting people to have more soul fulfilling relationships by writing books, counselling couples, facilitating circles, workshops, retreats and online courses…I had a HUGE breakthrough!

I had a relationship which started with a shared vow to understand the shadow dance of relating.

And boy did it deliver! The gift was I was able to map the terrain of intimacy…specifically what happens when we’re triggered and how our response determines which of the 3 levels of relating we operate at.

I then road tested my findings around the world with men and women, both couples and singles, both hetero and LGBTQ and they LOVED IT!

I’m so excited to share it with you now online!

Created for EVERYONE

  • Singles
  • Couples
  • Hetero
  • LGBTQ+

to support a new era of

Conscious couples, families & communities

Finally a map to navigate human relationships!

Enjoy smoother sailing in the unchartered territory of human relationships
by understanding the universal dynamics and how to traverse them!

When you know how, it’s easy! Heal the old dysfunctional dance and experience more joy, pleasure and tenderness

With the DIY skills needed to enhance existing relationships, create healthy foundations for new relationships and not repeat old patterns!


the 3 stages of masculine empowerment 

the 3 stages of feminine empowerment

how they play out as the 3 stages of relationship

& how to transition from one to the next!

This relationships map makes it clear what makes and breaks relationships, taking the guesswork out of relationships to provide a practical pathway to social sustainability



Stage One Awareness & Relating

This stage marks the beginning of our lessons in love. This is when sexual attraction is intensified as we strive to live up to perceived ideals to find and keep external love. 


Quiz: Is your Inner Child Sabotaging Love?

Understanding Stage One Masculine

Understanding Stage One Feminine

Understanding Stage One Relationship Dynamics

Stage One Conflict to Connection Strategies

This is when the conflict is most overt and intense. We may operate at this level most of the time, some of the time or on seldom occasions, when triggered.


How to Bust a Mood

How to Give Space & Get Emotional Support

How to Transcend Neediness & Fear of Commitment

Setting Boundaries


Stage Two Awareness & Relating

This stage is when we rebel against traditional roles to assert our personal power and seek someone who thinks like us…the dynamic is often more like siblings than lovers.  


Quiz: Is your Inner Teen Sabotaging Love?

Understanding Stage Two Masculine

Understanding Stage Two Feminine

Understanding Stage Two Relationship Dynamics

Stage Two Conflict to Connection Strategies

This is when our conflict is covert and experienced as an ongoing power struggle. We may operate at this level most of the time, some of the time or on seldom occasions, when triggered. 


How to Heal Judgement & Negative Beliefs

Transforming Competition into Cooperation

Healing Your Relationship Saboteur

Creating Interdependence


Stage Three Awareness & Relating

This stage is when we embrace imperfections and conflict as an opportunity to heal and grow. We have the tools and awareness to be accountable and share power. 


Quiz: Is your Inner Adult Cultivating Love?

Understanding Stage Three Masculine

Understanding Stage Three Feminine

Understanding Stage Three Relationship Dynamics

Stage Three Conflict to Connection Strategies

This is when both have an established personal practice for resolving triggers and honour each other as the divine teacher rather than scapegoating them.


Soul to Soul Conflict Resolution

Owning the Shadow

Building Trust & Intimacy

Cultivating Love

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What Motivates the 3 Levels of Relating
Rather than react to the behaviour, understand the motivation and diffuse the tension!


Exploring Polarity: The Foundation of Relating
The more polarised we are, the more conflict. Discover how our personal imbalance contributes to external tension.


Why People Cheat
Do you have reason to fear this? Discover the underlying issues than can be addressed and healed.


How to Rekindle the Spark of Passion
If the spark has gone aphrodisiacs are useless, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be lit!



Addressing Blocks to Orgasm
While techniques are helpful, this has nothing to do with anatomy


The Art of Sacred Union
Discover a new template for 21st century relationships! 


Praise for these teachings

“I have got so much out of this”
-Andy, England

“One of the best I’ve attended”
Karen, Germany

“This is for all ages”
Catherine, Germany

“A teacher you get instantly”
Axel, Germany

“Very powerful learnings!”
Anton, Australia

“An amazing experience!” 
Laura, France

“Care & LOVE for myself!”
– Tiffany, France

“The best thing. you can do!”
– Anja, Germany

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Both men & women have been equally hurt in the unconscious relationship dance. Relationships wound or heal depending on our level of awareness.
We have a responsiblity to ourselves & our loved ones to raise our awareness.’

Tanishka, author of Creating Sacred Union Within & Creating Sacred Union in Partnerships


“Tanishka’s work has had a profound impact in our marriage. My husband and I have been together for 6 years and when faced with challenges, Tanishka’s teachings have been integral in understanding the various influences at play. Her work has helped us navigate different stages of our relating and reflect on the ways in which we can become each others medicine and given us hope in the more challenging moments.
We highly recommend Tanishka’s offerings to couples or individuals wishing to create harmonious relationships. Thankyou Tanishka!”


Sarah Stando & Callan Hanning

We spend on average $30K to get hitched & another $30K to get ditched 

This education is a small & essential investment!

Frequently Asked Questions

How can I be sure this course is right for me?

If you honestly won’t invest the time watching the videos in this course and reflecting on your own choices, then this course is not for you. If you will commit to put in the time, congratulations you have what it takes to commit to creating a wonderful relationship!

I'm time poor, can I do this course at my own pace?

Absolutely! There are no time specific webinars and no assessments. Simply login when it suits you. You have lifetime access so you can also refer to materials as needed. 

Given how compromised the digital space has become, how safe and confidential is my data if I enrol?

100% guarantee your details and personal data remain private and confidential.

I am polyamorous so is this a program accommodating and inclusive of those who don't fit the norm? Or is it a one size fits all program?

Everyone is unique so while the course highlights universal issues, you’ll gain simple strategies to address your specific needs. 

Is the course going to potentially highlight differences and put me even more at odds with my partner?

The course focuses on appreciating differences rather than the old model of trying to dominate or manipulate your partner to conform.

More Praise for these teachings!

For the past 5 years, my husband and I had attended long-term marriage counselling and psychotherapy, undertaken online relationship programs, watched a ridiculous amount of YouTube and read countless articles and books. The Sacred Union weekend workshop was by far the most valuable work we have done and the richest advice we have received. We owned our shadows, unearthed our wounds and began the healing process.

The 3 stages of relationships taught through this workshop has offered me the big picture understanding that I needed to gain perspective of our situation. From here, I feel very confident we now have the insights we had been desperately looking for – to be able to move forward from our painful stuck place. Whether it is happily together or apart. We are both working hard for together, however, with these insights I feel empowered to know that once much personal work has been done, we will know whether we can make our relationship work in healthy way. In a way where we are still growing alongside each other, not disconnected and not suffocating each other, but deeply connected and at the same time honouring our own individual soul needs.

Leah Jeffries


Combining elements of Tantra and mysticism, this online program offers a whole new perspective on how we do relationships…

What You Will Gain

How to diffuse tension when triggered and dismantle the cycle of conflict that erodes love, trust and respect.

Simple strategies to identify your needs and get them met, reducing frustration & resentment

The secret to maintaining personal power in relationships & transcending power struggles

Tools to identify your gender imbalance & understand how that influences the partners you attract & rebalance

Insight into what kills the spark of sexual attraction and how to reignite it & keep it alive

Recognise how relationships evolve or dissolve dpending on how we respond when triggered.

Suitable for men & women of all ages, regardless of gender identity, preference, relationship status or prior experience.

the dance of intimacy is like a game of snakes and ladders, understand how to avoid sliding down and how to step up and you master the game




Loved as Facebook’s ‘Moon Woman’ with over half a million followers of her daily lunar guidance blog, Tanishka’s a former stand-up comic turned bestselling author of five books who’s taught ancient wisdom teachings for the past 23 years.

A leader in the global Red Tent movement, she has trained women in 44 countries to facilitate Red Tent women’s circles. She’s created an equivalent program for men to navigate the 12 stages of the hero’s journey in alignment with the sun’s transit around the 12 zodiac signs.

In 2008 she began channelling a series of Sacred Union books, empowering the masculine & feminine archetypes, as well as processes to connect soul to soul in every energy centre. This included extensive work with couples in private sessions and groups of men & women conducting ceremonies, workshops and retreats.

A keynote speaker at conferences, summits and festivals, she writes for numerous magazines and conducts online courses, speaking tours and facilitator trainings. Her latest book, ‘Goddess Wisdom’, published by Hay House is accompanied by an online course. Her next book maps the ancient rites of passage for men once known as The Grail.

By simply understanding the pitfalls to love and accessing the tools needed to build enduring relationships we can be part of a creating a new paradigm in human relating

More Praise for Tanishka’s work

“Tanishka is an awesome facilitator who ties together many threads from different paradigms. her work with men, women ; couples helps reveal the deeper archetypes playing out in people’s stories, giving greater understanding into how we tick & how we can heal & become whole.”

Michael Schoell
Cinematographer & Men’s Group Co-Facilitator

“Tanishka is more than a facilitator; she is a woman and leader of authentic truth who honours all who cross her path. To be guided by her is a miraculous experience which will, if you allow it, show you a personal strength you had no previous comprehension of.”

Bronwen Auty

VCE Secondary School Teacher 

‘Tanishka is a natural & inspiring leader. I have participated in many of Tanishka’s events & have observed her display an incredibly high level of awareness regarding the group’s dynamic. She is driven to make a difference in the world around her which she does through empowering others, creating community & inspiring new leaders. I wholeheartedly endorse Tanishka in everything she does!’

Kane Alexander
Photographer & Artist

Relationships require us to acknowledge and embrace all of ourselves so we can truly embrace each other.

When we create a safe container for this, healing is inevitable.

It’s time to put yourself in the driver’s seat
Rather than hoping for Happily Ever After and having it end in Divorce

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