
The Grail was the original stag night, a rite of passage that prepares men for partnerships, fatherhood & their sacred role as custodians of Mother Earth.
It does this by assisting men to make the inner shift from knight to king; one who is sacred, sovereign & knows how to use their power wisely, regardless of their age.
The Grail was considered the most holy of rites. It was undertaken by men over the Winter Solstice – the annual dark night of the soul when men are most at risk of illness, injury and even death.
This rite supports men to face the dragon (the shadow feminine within) & transcend their darkest fears to return reborn as the sacred king!
9 Day Grail Kingship Initiation Rite Retreat for Men
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What Does The Grail Kingship Rite Include?
Empowering Ancient Wisdom Teachings
✓ The Annual Hero’s Journey of Descent & Resurrection
✓ The Cycle of Conscious versus Unconscious Manhood
✓ How to Generate Power by Harnessing the 5 Elements
✓ Navigating Your Way Out of the Darkness Within
✓ Kingship Training: The Key to Sovereignty
✓ How to Be a Man for All Seasons: The 4 Phases of Manhood
✓Facing The Dragon: The Power Ally of the Dark Feminine
✓The Role of the Grail Knights, Sacred Kings & Merlins
✓The Secret of the Holy Grail: the Sangraal Mystery Teachings
Artwork: ‘Stag Lord’ by Stephanie ‘SigiDawn’ Lostimolo
Empowering Ancient Wisdom Teachings
✓ The Annual Hero’s Journey of Descent & Resurrection
✓ The Cycle of Conscious versus Unconscious Manhood
✓ How to Generate Power by Harnessing the 5 Elements
✓ Navigating Your Way Out of the Darkness Within
✓ Kingship Training: The Key to Sovereignty
✓ How to Be a Man for All Seasons: The 4 Phases of Manhood
✓Facing The Dragon: The Power Ally of the Dark Feminine
✓The Role of the Grail Knights, Sacred Kings & Merlins
✓The Secret of the Holy Grail: the Sangraal Mystery Teachings
Artwork: ‘Stag Lord’ by Stephanie ‘SigiDawn’ Lostimolo
Artwork: ‘Stag Lord’ by Stephanie ‘SigiDawn’ Lostimolo
Empowering Ancient Wisdom Teachings
✓ The Annual Hero’s Journey of Descent & Resurrection
✓ The Cycle of Conscious versus Unconscious Manhood
✓ How to Generate Power by Harnessing the 5 Elements
✓ Navigating Your Way Out of the Darkness Within
✓ Kingship Training: The Key to Sovereignty
✓ How to Be a Man for All Seasons: The 4 Phases of Manhood
✓Facing The Dragon: The Power Ally of the Dark Feminine
✓The Role of the Grail Knights, Sacred Kings & Merlins
✓The Secret of the Holy Grail: the Sangraal Mystery Teachings
Transformative Experiential Processes
✓ Trance dance
✓ Breath work
✓ Sacred ceremony
✓ Brotherhood circles
✓ Guided meditation
✓ Mythic storytelling
✓ Self enquiry questions & group work
About this Rite of Passage
A rite of passage is a sacred initiation which assists us to transition psychologically & emotionally from one life stage to the next. It does this by providing insight so we can release perspectives that no longer serve us & expand into a greater version of ourselves.
We then emerge stronger, clearer and equipped for our next life chapter. Unlike puberty rites where boys are initiated into manhood by older men, the second rite in a man’s life, the Grail was conducted by a woman…known as the Magdalene, the Lady of the Lake or the High Priestess.
The Role of the Sacred Feminine
IN THE GRAIL RITE
In the ancient world, there was a king who presided over the land & earthly matters & a high priestess who was the spiritual leader of the people. Together they ensured stability & growth on all levels.
When the wisdom of the sacred feminine was dismissed we lost this sacred balance. Previously kings were not considered fit to rule if they did not seek the guidance & initiation of the sacred feminine.

The 5 Gifts Men Receive Through Seeking the Grail

THE MIRROR
The role of the sacred feminine in the Grail rite is to hold up the mirror of his soul so a man can reflect upon what he sees in himself.

THE CUP OF HUMAN KINDNESS
The Lady of the Lake offers Grail knights the cup of self-compassion. This gift awakens their inner sacred feminine, so their heart is open to give & receive love.

EXCALIBUR, THE SWORD OF TRUTH
Through understanding & honoring their inner feminine mystical gifts men receive the sword of truth which cuts through the illusory stories of the mind so they can navigate their way out of the dark labyrinth within & fulfill their highest destiny.

THE TREE OF LIFE
Represented by the stag’s horns, the Grail activates the World Tree within a man’s psyche that enables him to journey between the three worlds.

THE CAULDRON OF PLENTY
It is the sacred feminine wisdom teachings of the cycles that demystify a man’s role in the circle of life so he may mature & become a man for all seasons & manifest through planting his intentions in the cosmic womb.

The 5 Gifts Men Receive Through Seeking the Grail

THE MIRROR
The role of the sacred feminine in the Grail rite is to hold up the mirror of his soul so a man can reflect upon what he sees in himself.

THE CUP OF HUMAN KINDNESS
The Lady of the Lake offers Grail knights the cup of self-compassion. This gift awakens their inner sacred feminine, so their heart is open to give & receive love.

EXCALIBUR, THE SWORD OF TRUTH
Through understanding & honoring their inner feminine mystical gifts men receive the sword of truth which cuts through the illusory stories of the mind so they can navigate their way out of the dark labyrinth within & fulfill their highest destiny.

THE TREE OF LIFE
Represented by the stag’s horns, the Grail activates the World Tree within a man’s psyche that enables him to journey between the three worlds.

THE CAULDRON OF PLENTY
It is the sacred feminine wisdom teachings of the cycles that demystify a man’s role in the circle of life so he may mature & become a man for all seasons & manifest through planting his intentions in the cosmic womb.
How the Grail Prepares Men for Union & Fulfilling Their Highest Destiny
In the ancient world, noble men weren’t considered fit for the rite of Sacred Union unless they had ‘faced the dragon’. The dragon is the dark feminine within themselves, embodied externally by the High Priestess, known colloquially as the ‘Dragon Woman’. Her role is to confront those willing to seek the Grail with their unconscious fears so they can reclaim their power & not unconsciously sabotage their relationships.
The Grail is the sacred chalice of womb wisdom. Grail knights were the noble seekers of truth who sought the teachings of the sacred feminine so they could be in right relationship with the feminine in themselves, women & the Earth Mother.
Without the Grail men fear their own feminine traits as unacceptable & fear entanglement with women for fear of being destroyed by she who reflects their shadow.
The Grail awakens the lion-hearted hero in the mid-Winter cave who confronts his greatest fears about himself so he can transcend his critical mind & complete his Hero’s Journey by assuming his rightful place as a sacred & sovereign being within the circle of life.
Without This Rite of Passage Men Experience:
Self doubt
Fear of commitment
Self-destructive behaviors & addictions
Dis-empowerment in relationships
Depression, illness, injury & suicide during Autumn / Winter

The Grail Offers Men Of All
Ages:
A foundation of true inner power
Deep self-acceptance through greater understanding
The support of authentic brotherhood
Tools to empower every facet of their life
Insight into the feminine internally & externally

Why It’s Time For the Grail To Return
✓ A man who is not in right relationship with his own feminine cannot be in right relationship with women or the Earth Mother
✓ A man will destroy all he seeks to create unless he is willing to face his dark side & integrate his disowned aspects
✓Without this initiation, men struggle to feel whole. So they polarize by seeking to dominate the feminine or by allowing the feminine to dominate them. Neither is a foundation for sustainable relationships….or they avoid relationship completely
✓Without a purpose a man is lost & when a man feels his life is meaningless he is at risk of suicide. Male suicide is at an all time high.
About Your Facilatator

Tanishka
Tanishka is best known as Facebook’s, ‘Moon Woman’ with half a million followers of her daily guidance. An author of six books, she has taught ancient feminine wisdom traditions & practices for 25 years. In 2004 she started working with men, creating male archetypal chart readings to assist men to integrate all 7 masculine aspects within their psyche.
In 2008 she received the message it was time to awaken the Grail codes. This was followed by intuitive downloads that included a Sacred Union trilogy of books & various practices including full moon & seasonal Grail gatherings for men & women.
In 2011 she created a unique series of Sacred Union sessions for couples by initiating them through 7 x monthly sessions to connect soul to soul on all levels by unveiling their inner God & Goddess at each of the 7 chakras (energy gates).
She then started receiving visions which culminated in her decoding the greatest mystery of all time, ‘The Holy Grail’ from the perspective of the sacred feminine. In 2013 she began touring with these teachings drawing on her background as a stand-up comedienne to entertain while captivating audiences with her ability to channel truth as an oracle.
In 2013 she created the 12 Suns Brotherhood Lodge online course offering a template for men’s circles to assist men to align with the solar cycle & support their Hero’s Journey around the astrological wheel. This was designed as a counterpart to her Red Tent online course that’s trained women in 44 countries to facilitate Red Tent women’s circles as a community building initiative. In 2013 she was also guided to create the Rainbow Bridge retreat for men & women to access & empower both the feminine & masculine archetypes that govern the chakras as a foundation for conscious relating.
In 2015 she created ‘The 28 Day Happy Challenge’ a not-for-profit project to raise funds, awareness and support for women recovering from the trauma of human trafficking.
In addition to being a popular keynote speaker at conferences, summits and festivals online & live around the world, she writes feature articles for leading women’s and alternative health magazines & conducts online courses, speaking tours & retreats. Her fifth book, ‘Goddess Wisdom’ published by Hay House in conjunction with an online course was released June 2017.
In 2020 Tanishka launched the Rainbow Warrior course program for men to awaken the 7 masculine archetypes that govern the chakras and map the male psyche.
She now also facilitates men through the Hero’s Journey in her Make It Happen online course.
Her latest book, The Grail released 2.2.22 offers insight to empower men and awaken the sacred masculine in the collective.
Praise for Tanishka
Tanishka is an awesome facilitator who ties together many threads from different paradigms. her work with men, women ; couples helps reveal the deeper archetypes playing out in people’s stories, giving greater understanding into how we tick & how we can heal & become whole.
Tanishka is a natural & inspiring leader. I have participated in many of Tanishka’s events & have observed her display an incredibly high level of awareness regarding the group’s dynamic. She is driven to make a difference in the world around her which she does through empowering others, creating community & inspiring new leaders. I wholeheartedly endorse Tanishka in everything she does!
I found Tanishka’s masculine archetype reading incredibly informative & so valuable in helping me to feel stronger as a man & act accordingly in my life. Tanishka your work is so powerful & very much needed.
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