The moon is entering Virgo today with the sun in Scorpio. Virgo & Scorpio are considered to be the most Tantric of all the zodiac signs, since Virgo is the sign of the priest / priestess – the disciple who devotes themselves as a vessel to serve & Scorpio is the sign of death / sex & transformation. With sun & moon in these two signs that makes for quite a Wednesday folks!
So…if single or feeling as if you are, you may wish to take a little sacred space for yourself & pleasure yourself with the intent of self-healing. For when we touch ourselves with the pure intent of reverence for all we are & all we have journeyed, the intelligence of every cell responds & releases all they have held, waiting for a safe space to
release. One of the signs of climax is crying – it is not bad or a sign that you are a basket case. It is a deep & cleansing release of all that will keep you closed, inhibited & unavailable to love with another.

For specific advice on how to love yourself into wholeness & wellness check out my book, ‘Creating Sacred Union Within’ especially the chapter, ‘How to Self-Pleasure Like a Hermaphrodite’ (& no, you do not need two sets of genitals to qualify) If in a partnership, consider how you can create a temple space to honor the divine in each other. Like the saying, ‘build it & they will come’. If you create the ambiance, the invitation for a love feast rather than a 2 min noodle interlude you will have more likelihood of being met by a Love God or Love Goddess! If you would like specific suggestions on love banquet courses you can enjoy with you lover, might I recommend the chapter: Sensual & Sacred Rituals for Lovers in my latest book, ‘Creating Sacred Union in Partnerships’ (avail as an ebook if you want to access it today!)
I should point out that Tantra starts with owning & taking full responsibility for our unconscious thoughts & behaviors & how they impact our lives & those closest to us. So don’t be surprised if the Scorpio wild woman, Lilith rears her head demanding she be honored with a full admission & accountability plan to address shadow patterns before opening to love. Love is built on trust & trust is earned through right action. Without it, resentment builds & intimacy is lost.

Blessings on your day